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2024-12-26 12:39 pm

Rare Femslash Exchange 2024 Creator Letter

First of all, thank you so much for writing for me. I hope, since we match, that our tastes are aligned and that you're thrilled with what you get to write. However, if we diverge in taste, feel free to do what works for you. As long I haven't listed something as a DNW, it shouldn't be a major turn-off, and I'll be grateful no matter what. I like to do these exchanges to write in community with other fic writers, so I just want you to have fun. 

General Likes: I love anything from fluff to mildly dark. I draw the line at hopelessness—I hate when a piece is very dark and the main character is not enjoying themselves and there’s also no way out. I love enthusiastic submission/dominance with lots of after care. But I also love dubious consent, gentle manipulation, authority figures who take advantage of their charges, soft non-cons with a lot of gentle stimulation, morally grey characters that accidentally cross that major line and then can’t stop because their feelings are overwhelming.  

Smut Likes: Bondage (all kinds, but specially rope bondage and shibari), blindfolds, gags, impact play (but especially tit and pussy spankings), light to moderate pain play, oral sex, face-sitting, fingerfucking, finger sucking, forced orgasms, orgasm denial, orgasm delay, orgasm edging, all sorts of nipple and breast play, nipple orgasm, double penetration, multiple orgasms, begging, praise and obedience kink, sex toys of all kinds (plugs, vibrators, clamps, dildos, like, really, love them all), anal sex and anal training, virginity kinks (including virginity checks, useless as they are) and chastity devices.

DNWs: Story written in second person (everything else is fine). Story written with any sort of AI. Stories featuring: domestic abuse; misogyny; racism; homophobia; ableism; transphobia; self-harm; suicidal ideation; any sort of scat or vomit; vore; watersports; A/B/O, sex pollen, and heat. Pregnancy, breeding, or oviposition as fetishes (mentioning pregnancy as a reality if it’s canon is fine). It goes without saying that racism is a 'no,' but because a lot of people will try to write diverse characters and fall into pitfalls they don't know are pitfalls, try to stick to your lived experienced. As a person of color, I prefer reading about all-white characters than being startled by a triggering dog whistle.

I also struggle with stories about people being trapped with no way out, even as I enjoy some level of non-consensual play and manipulation. I want victims to have some sort of agency, so any sort of compulsion where they agency is impossible turns me off. And even for extreme situations like ‘fuck or die,’ I like for it to end and leave the characters in a position to deal with what happened/what they did without coercion. I love captivity as a kink, but I need it to be a finite event. I love manipulation and gentle non-cons, but I prefer these to either lead the victim to enjoying themselves and being conflicted, to some form of Stockholm Syndrome where they’re on board with the situation, or to an end.

If HP or any magic related fandom, please no magical bonds, soulmates, love potions, or compulsive situations. No mind controls of any kind. I want people who are into the sex and the kinks, even when they’re ashamed of it because of the context (captivity or incest, etc.) or when they’re bound and gagged and thus can’t consent.
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2024-04-26 07:08 pm

Femslash Kink Exchange 2024 - Author Letter

First of all, thank you so much for writing for me. I hope, since we match, that our tastes are aligned and that you're thrilled with what you get to write. However, if we diverge in taste, feel free to pick and choose a few kinks that work and give me your version. As long I haven't listed something as a DNW in the sign-up, it shouldn't be a major turn-off, and I'll be grateful no matter what. I like to do these exchanges to write in community with other fic writers, so I just want you to have fun. 

General Likes: I love anything from fluff to mildly dark. I draw the line at hopelessness—I hate when a piece is very dark and the main character is not enjoying themselves and there’s also no way out. I love enthusiastic submission/dominance with lots of after care. But I also love dubious consent, gentle manipulation, authority figures who take advantage of their charges, soft non-cons with a lot of gentle stimulation, morally grey characters that accidentally cross that major line and then can’t stop because the lust is overwhelming.  

 

Smut Likes: Bondage (all kinds, but specially rope bondage and shibari), blindfolds, gags, impact play (but especially tit and pussy spankings), light to moderate pain play, oral sex, face-sitting, fingerfucking, finger sucking, forced orgasms, orgasm denial, orgasm delay, orgasm edging, all sorts of nipple and breast play, nipple orgasm, double penetration, multiple orgasms, begging, praise and obedience kink, sex toys of all kinds (plugs, vibrators, clamps, dildos, like, really, love them all), anal sex and anal training, virginity kinks (including virginity checks, useless as they are) and chastity devices.

 

DNWs: Story written in second person (everything else is fine). Story written with any sort of AI. Stories featuring: domestic abuse; misogyny; racism; homophobia; ableism; transphobia; self-harm; suicidal ideation; any sort of scat or vomit; vore; watersports; A/B/O, sex pollen, and heat. Pregnancy, breeding, or oviposition as fetishes (mentioning pregnancy as a reality if it’s canon is fine).

I also struggle with stories about people being trapped with no way out, even as I enjoy some level of non-consensual play and manipulation. I want victims to have some sort of agency, so any sort of compulsion where they agency is impossible turns me off. And even for extreme situations like ‘fuck or die,’ I like for it to end and leave the characters in a position to deal with what happened/what they did without coercion. I love captivity as a kink, but I need it to be a finite event. I love manipulation and gentle non-cons, but I prefer these to either lead the victim to enjoying themselves and being conflicted, to some form of Stockholm Syndrome where they’re on board with the situation, or to an end.

If HP or any magic related fandom, please no magical bonds, soulmates, love potions, or compulsive situations. No mind controls of any kind. I want people who are into the sex and the kinks, even when they’re ashamed of it because of the context (captivity or incest, etc.) or when they’re bound and gagged and thus can’t consent.

I've put all my pairing related requests on AO3, but I'll repeat them here in case this is easier to navigate.

Yellowjackets

Lottie Matthews/Natalie Scatorccio (Yellowjackets)

Lottie Matthews/Vanessa "Van" Palmer (Yellowjackets)


I prefer these on the adult side and of course my preference is for this to take place when they’re all at Lottie’s compound. I would literally die if someone wrote a sex scene between Lottie and Natalie when they leave the others during the reunion (just please no character death, I don’t need reminders, the trauma is still very strong).   

 

Arcane: League of Legends (Cartoon 2021)

Grayson/Caitlyn Kiramman (Arcane: LoL)

Cassandra Kiramman/Jinx (Arcane: LoL)

Caitlyn/Jinx (Arcane: LoL)

 

I’d love to see something on the kinkier side for Arcane. I don’t know, I feel like the uber violent world of the show accommodates that very well. I’m okay with any level of consensual for Arcane, and actually think Jinx going after Cassandra instead of Caitlyn might be interesting? I would also love to see something happening between Grayson and Caitlyn before Grayson’s death, and that could be on the more consensual, gentle side.

 

Original Work

Victorian Governess/Naïve Charge (OW)

Teen In Love with her Stepmother/Stepmother Who Knows It and Orchestrates Fake ‘Fuck or Die’ Situation to Finally Claim Her (OW)

Stepmother Who Gets Wet When Stepdaughter Calls her Mommy/Stepdaughter Who Knows It (OW)

 

Victorian Governess/Naïve Charge: For me this scenario is perfect for dubious consent or very gentle non-con. The charge knows nothing about sex, she just knows she enjoys the way her Governess touches her during her bath or when she’s dressing her or putting on her chastity belt, so the Governess takes full advantage of that to claim her charge’s virginity/mold her into the perfect plaything.

Elite Athlete Distracted by Horniness/Coach Who Uses Edging to Keep Them Focused: I want all the pain play and edging with this one, with heaps of manipulation approaching (or crossing into) non-con. Coach places her athlete in chastity device and makes athlete come to her home at night for dinner and extra ‘coaching’ or coach catches athlete masturbating in the shower and punishes her or even a forced proximity/captivity scenario where they’re alone in a hotel for a competition and coach demands they share a room so she can finally exert complete control over athlete and claim her virginity.

Teen In Love with her Stepmother/Stepmother Who Knows It and Orchestrates Fake ‘Fuck or Die’ Situation to Finally Claim Her: I think this one is completely self-explanatory.

Stepmother Who Gets Wet When Stepdaughter Calls her Mommy/Stepdaughter Who Knows It: I’d love this pairing in an accidental ‘bad guys made them do it’ scenario, like the direct opposite of the pairing above—they’re genuinely taken hostage or threatened in a way that heightens emotions and stepdaughter starts calling her stepmother ‘mommy’ even though it arouses her, and the bad guys force them to fuck for their entertainment (and they both feel so guilty when they love it). It would also be great as a deliberate plot from stepdaughter to get stepmother desperate so stepmom submits to her.

Woman with Trust Issues/Therapist Who Wants to Treat Her with Bondage and Sensory Deprivation: This could also be approached in so many different ways. The therapist genuinely thinking this unorthodox treatment will help, but accidental stimulation makes her patient aroused and patient begs to get off. Or it can be a ploy for her to gently non-con her patient.

 

Original Work

Female Ramson Kidnappers/Rich CEO Who Gets Accidentally Horny During her Kidnapping (OW)

New Student at Elite Boarding School/Toxic Headmistress Who Wants Her as a Plaything (OW)

Serial Killer/Her Therapist Who is Fascinated with Her Darkness (OW)

Vampire Posing as ER Doctor/Patient with Delicious Blood (OW)

Star Ballerina/Stage Mom Who is Willing to Kidnap Her Daughter’s Competition Before Audition (OW)

 

Female Ramson Kidnappers/Rich CEO Who Gets Accidentally Horny During her Kidnapping: I’d love for the horniness to be accidental on both sides. The kidnappers don’t mean to touch her sexually, they just secure her, until she gets so aroused they offer to get her off.

New Student at Elite Boarding School/Toxic Headmistress Who Wants Her as a Plaything (OW): I’d love for a historical or surreal feel to this one, with the Headmistress being all powerful. From a slow burn where the headmistress teases and manipulates until the new student is eager to be hers from the headmistress simply taking the new student to her apartments or a secret room and keeping her captive until Stockholm Syndrome sets in, this could go in all sorts of directions and still be awesome.

Serial Killer/Her Therapist Who is Fascinated with Her Darkness (OW): I’d love for a bit of a cat/mouse game with these two, where the serial killer pretends to speak in hypotheticals and the therapist pretends to believe it, or whatever your smart brain comes up with. Finally the killer decides she has to have her therapist to herself and kidnaps her, but the therapist is actually turned on by it and wanted her to do it all along.

Vampire Posing as ER Doctor/Patient with Delicious Blood (OW): I think fear increasing arousal and danger kink work for all of these, but I’d specially love it paired with this one. Patient comes in with a cut or something, and the vampire who works as doctor specifically to feed takes her to a secluded area in the hospital and has her way with her meal.

Star Ballerina/Stage Mom Who is Willing to Kidnap Her Daughter’s Competition Before Audition (OW): I’d love some fear increasing arousal here too. And definitively lots of accidental stimulation and accidental orgasms, leading to some degree of Lyma Syndrome/Stockholm Syndrome.

 

Teixcalaan

Nineteen Adze/Mahit Dazmare (Teixcalaan)

Nineteen Adze/Five Agate (Teixcalaan)

 

Oh, there were so many moments when Mahit was ‘imprisoned’ at Nineteen Adze’s apartment when I was sure she was going to succumb to her attraction and Yskander’s buried feelings for Nineteen Adze. I think you can take any of those moments and make it kinky.

I also felt like Nineteen Adze and Five Agate were giving discreetly married couple in the sequel.

 

Harry Potter - J. K. Rowling

Luna Lovegood/Narcissa Black Malfoy (HP)

Minerva McGonagall/Narcissa Black Malfoy (HP)

Hermione Granger/Minerva McGonagall/Narcissa Black Malfoy (HP)

Narcissa Black Malfoy/Amelia Bones (HP)

 

I’m thinking the Order is not the only resistance network in Wizarding Britain. All sorts of underground networks exist to do stuff like get vulnerable muggleborns out of the country, and the lesbians all know each other and are very good at discreetly passing information back and forth. Narcissa goes to either Minerva or Amelia with some information, and that act of duplicity builds up to attraction and a romance. But I’m okay with after-War as well (happy to pretend Amelia never died). I haven’t bothered Cursed Child, seems poorly written, but I don’t mind people using Delphini to justify why Narcissa stayed on the side (it’s actually a neat way to brush off the moral opposition and get to what matters).

I also would love some sort of after-War Luna/Narcissa. I think if Narcissa ever took the risk to protect anyone, it would have been Luna, since she was locked in her cellar for months. But I also feel like Luna would be the most forgiving, the most likely to offer Narcissa her friendship or nonchalantly flirt with her despite everything that happened.

 

The Murderbot Diaries - Martha Wells

Dr. Bharadwaj/Dr. Mensah (Murderbot Diaries)

Dr. Arada/Overse (Murderbot Diaries)

Dr. Bharadwaj/Pin-Lee (Murderbot Diaries)

 

I think it’s hard to imagine these pairings having anything but gentle tender sex, but I think there’s still a lot that can be explored with both Mensah and Bharadwaj having traumatic events in canon. I think some hurt/comfort would be great here, or also the characters using kinky sex to explore their trauma. Or simply, these could be people who were kinky in the past and who now need to find new ways into what they like because there’s been so much trauma in their lives.

 

Happy writing



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2020-09-21 02:58 pm

Femslash Exchange Letter

Dear Author,

I’m so excited that you will be writing for me. I can’t wait for reveal day. I love contributing new femslash works to the world, and I’m also super giddy that you are writing femslash just for me.

I promise that I’m not picky. I’m looking forward to whatever you come up with and my main wish is that you have fun writing it. Mainly what I am looking for is two women having a good time. True love is optional, but given the darkness of the world right now, I would prefer something light or at least, angst that turns into joy.

For my requests, I picked fandoms and/or pairings that are amazing, but I could never write, so I don’t even have any prompts this time. I’m just eager to see what someone can do with these ideas. I especially love f/f HisRom, but I am terrible at writing it, so I will love you forever if you give me some (there are only so many times I can reread Lady’s Guide. Maybe).

Likes:

Porn with plot and without it. Fluff, humor, and romance are all welcome, but a darker, angstier tone is good as well, as long as the angst isn’t about one of the characters not wanting to have sex or be in the relationship. I like romance, but I tend to prefer external obstacles to people being together, which goes against the grain of the genre a bit, but I just want women to feel comfortable wanting each other! (I will, however, gladly accept long periods of yearning instead.)

This year has been incredibly hard, though, so a happy ending would be greatly appreciated (it doesn’t need to be a HEA, or even a romantic happy ending, just people being okay and having joy).

Enthusiastic consent. Enthusiastic D/s if you wish to go kinky, with a submissive that knows what she wants and enjoys herself. Enthusiastic anything.

Well-negotiated kink and/or characters learning about kink and their likes and dislikes together. Romantic and sexual exploration of any kind. I love when everyone is gay and past figuring things out, but I also love when someone is discovering things about themselves that bring them happiness.

After-care (it doesn’t need to be explicitly pointed out, it can just be a cuddle/moment of affection after any kinky scene).

Respect for hard and soft limits. Agreed upon forced orgasms are fine, though.

Bondage and sensory deprivation will make me love you.

Fingering. Toys.

Any Non-penetrative sex, especially cunnilingus. Clit and nipple play.

Orgasm denial and forced orgasms.

Clothed sex.

Light pain play.

Anal sex and anal training.

Yearning. Pining. You know, sapphic stuff (never necessary, but always appreciated)

 

 

DNW:

Story written in second person (everything else is fine).

Fellatio. I just hate it and I really don’t want it in my explicit stuff.  

One of the characters spending the entire fic thinking about how what they are doing is wrong and they don’t want it, but they do it anyway because they are aroused. One of the characters being frightened of the sexual acts taking place.

Non-negotiated or under-negotiated kink (negotiation doesn’t need to be on page, but please make it clear that both parties have agreed to what is happening in some way). Submissive being led blindly through their first kinky scene. One of the characters saying they are not comfortable doing something and the other convincing them they need to fight their discomfort, especially if the character is new to BDSM and is told that this is what submissives do.

Dominant character deciding unilaterally to train another character into being their submissive/pet/plaything/slave and never consulting the other character about if this is something they might want and what it entails. Dominant character sending the submissive away without after-care after anything BDSM related. (Fade to black when it comes to after-care is fine.)

Manipulation, blackmail, or gaslighthing. The judgment of either party being impaired or either party feeling pressured by financial or societal circumstances to consent to sex.

If one of the characters is underage, make sure there is no grooming.

A/B/O, sex pollen, and heat. If HP or any fantasy related fandom, no magical bonds, soulmates that are compelled to together, love potions, or situations where the brain or body are altered by magic to compel two characters that are repulsed by one another to have sex. 

Scat, vore, vomit, or watersports. Pregnancy, breeding, or oviposition. It’s fine if the characters have children and children are mentioned, though.

Abuse, misogyny, racism, homophobia, ableism, or transphobia. The exception goes for characters that have prejudice in canon, as long as they are not wielding those views inside the relationship. Please, also try to steer away from racial stereotypes or misconceptions. As a WOC, I honestly prefer if all white characters to under-researched and cringey characters of color. If you are not sure if you can write an identity well, it’s best not to write it all.

Self-harm or extreme mental illness.

 
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2020-08-15 09:01 pm

Femsub Semi-Flash Letter

 Dear Creator,

I’m so excited that you will be writing for me. I can’t wait for reveal day. I promise that I’m not picky. I’m looking forward to whatever you come up with and my main wish is that you have fun writing it. Mainly what I am looking for is people having very hot sex they are both super into.

In certain circumstances, I’m also very into dub-con and even non-con, but I restricted my requests to consensual encounters because I’m always craving more stories with enthusiastic consent and characters who are keen on what is happening. I know sometimes that is just not what you are in the mood to write though, so I added a few requests there that could be a bit darker, have undertones of dubious consent, and even be noncon.

Feel free to use my tags and likes however they fit with the story, and if they don’t, it’s okay. I just want you to have fun writing for me.

Likes:

Porn with plot and without it. Fluff, humor, and romance are all welcome, but a darker, angstier tone is great as well, as long as the angst isn’t about one of the characters not wanting to have sex or be in the relationship.

Enthusiastic consent. Well-negotiated kink and/or characters learning about kink and their likes and dislikes together. Aftercare (it doesn’t need to be explicitly pointed out, it can just be a cuddle/moment of affection after any kinky scene). Respect for hard and soft limits.

Sexual Likes:

Bondage and sensory deprivation will make me love you. Fingering. Toys. Any Non-penetrative sex. Cunnilingus. Clit and nipple play. Orgasm denial and forced orgasms. Clothed sex. Light pain play. Anal sex and anal training. Enthusiastic D/s, with a submissive that knows what she wants and enjoys herself.

 

DNWs:

Non-negotiated or under-negotiated kink—unless I have specifically asked for it (if I didn’t ask for kink negotiation, it doesn’t need to happen on page, but please make it clear the sub has consented to the scene in some way). 

Submissive being led blindly through their first kinky scene. Sub spending the entire fic thinking about how what they are doing is wrong and they don’t want it, but they do it anyways because they are aroused. Sub being frightened of the sexual acts taking place. Dominant character deciding unilaterally to train another character into being their submissive/pet/plaything. Dominant character sending the submissive away without aftercare.

Fellatio. I just don’t like blow jobs. It’s a weird pet peeves, but it is my main one.

Manipulation or blackmail. Gaslighthing. The judgment of either party being impaired or either party feeling pressured by financial or societal circumstances to consent. One of the characters saying they are not comfortable doing something, and the other convincing them they need to fight their discomfort, especially if the character is new to BDSM and is told that this is what submissives do. If one of the characters is underage, make sure there is no grooming.

A/B/O, scat, vore, vomit, or watersports. Pregnancy, breeding, sexual pollen, in heat, or oviposition. It’s fine if the characters have children and children are mentioned, I just don’t like a focus on breeding.

Abuse, misogyny, racism, homophobia, ableism, or transphobia. The exception goes for characters that have prejudice in canon, as long as they are not wielding those views inside the relationship (e.g., Narcissa calling Hermione a mudblood, engaging in microagressions or trying to convince her that muggleborns are inferior. Feel free to make any of the characters have views that need to be challenged, just don’t write them using those views to humiliate their sub or convince their sub to submit against their will.)

Self-harm or extreme mental illness.

If HP or any fantasy related fandom, no magical bonds, soulmates that are compelled to be together, love potions, or situations where the brain or body are altered by magic to compel two characters that are repulsed by one another to have sex. 

Story written in second person (everything else is fine).

Possible Plots

If you have your own idea already, feel free to ignore these, of course.

Cinderella 1950

Lady Tremaine/Anastasia/Drizella/sub!Cinderella (Cinderella 1950), Lady Tremaine/sub!Cinderella (Cinderella 1950)

Prompt: In order to keep Cinderella from trying the crystal shoe, Lady Tremaine binds and gags her. Unexpectedly, Cinderella is very aroused by this, so much so that when Lady Tremaine comes to check on her captive she can see and smell the evidence. Lady Tremaine has never thought about demanding Cinderella’s submission in this way, but now she feels a need to make Cinderella fully hers.

Bonus points if Cinderella eventually goes to the Prince and marries him, but he can’t make her feel the way her Domme(s) do, so she moves her family into her new household so they can continue to dominate her.

Extra bonus points and my undying loyalty if Cinderella is the one to beg Lady Tremaine to keep her tied up because it feels so good, and Lady Tremaine offers her to show her what pleasure really looks like (prompting even more begging). I would love to see their relationship transform once Cinderella becomes a sexual pet instead of a servant, with Cinderella getting the tenderness and praise she always wanted, and Lady Tremaine getting the obedience and control she always craved.

(This is just an idea, so feel free to do your own thing with it. I feel like this relationship is ripe with possibilities. I just don’t want Cinderella being groomed for sex when she’s underage, or Lady Tremaine having these desires while her stepdaughter is still a teenager. Anything between those two happening after Cinderella has become an adult will be perfect. Under-negotiated kinky sex is okay, but I want Cinderella to want this unequivocally and consent with enthusiasm.)


Harry Potter

Cho Chang/sub!Ginny Weasley (HP - JKR), Cho Chang/sub!Luna Lovegood (HP - JKR), Fleur Delacour/sub!Hermione Granger (HP - JKR), Ginny Weasley/sub!Gabrielle Delacour (HP - JKR), Viktor Krum/sub!Hermione Granger (HP - JKR), Viktor Krum/Fleur Delacour/sub! Hermione Granger (HP - JKR)

Prompts: I don’t have any detailed ideas about these, just a list of things I would love with them. Detailed kink negotiations, specially if Hermione is involved, with the sub doing her research and knowing what she wants. Sub is elated to give up control because her life is stressful. Very enthusiastic first time for the virgins, just an all around fun sexual experience.

Underage is okay for these since the age difference is pretty slim.


Alecto Carrow/AmycusCarrow/sub!Pansy Parkinson
(HP - JKR)

Prompt: Alecto Carrow/AmycusCarrow/sub!Pansy Parkinson – Pansy just wants to be valued, to be a good girl for someone. Alecto and Amycus see that urge in her and nurture it by making her their submissive, and training her to be a good, obedient little Death Eater. Bonus points for Pansy and the Carrows twins leaning into teacher/student roleplay.

DNW: Sharing. Pansy is the Carrow’s and the Carrow’s alone.


Original Work

Female Spy/sub!Female Rival Spy (OW), Female Arms Dealer/sub!Female Undercover field agent (OW)

Prompt: Just about any version of woman is undercover as romantic partner of bad woman or enemy spy, partner gets suspicious, woman uses submission to prove loyalty/love or throw her partner off track.


Female Village Witch/sub!Female Village Blacksmith, (OW)Female Village Witch/sub!Female Witch's Apprentice (OW)

Prompt: Sex magic! I actually have no ideas for this, but they seem like awesome possibilities.


Wonder Woman (DCU)

Antiope/sub!Diana, Diana/sub!Original Female Character (Wonder Woman), Antiope/sub!Original Female Character (Wonder Woman)

Prompt: Instead of Steve, a woman is being pursued by Nazis and washes off at the island. She ends up staying a while.


Incredibles

Evelyn/sub!Helen

Prompt: Instead of using mind control, Evelyn wins Helen over to her side by showing her everything she is been missing in bed. Or Evelyn hypnotized Helen not to destroy supers, but to be her plaything.